LOVE YOUR KIDS ENOUGH TO SAY 'NO'

masuk opis arini,macam biasa arr...amik surat khabar the sun yang free kat pintu masuk mall,....dok baca2 ada satu topik yang menarik ati saya...tajuk nyer " Love your kids enough to say 'no'."...menarik sgt...antara yang menarik saya nak kongsi ialah Guidelines how to handle our kids right.

1) Be consistent.If not, we will confuse them
2) don't make promises we can't keep
3) Don't make them feel smaller than they are
4) don't do things that they can do for themselves
5) don't correct them infront of others. Talk to them in private
6) don't try to discuss their behaviour in the heat of the moment
7) and stop preaching to them
8) do not take much notice of their small ailments
9) treat them as persons not things
10) don't think it is beneath your dignity to apologise to them when you are wrong.
11) don't ever suggest that youare prefect or infallible.
12) balance responsibility with forgiveness & love

menarikan..artikel ni nukilan Mr. Bulbir Singh dari seremban...so kengkawan...kalau mana yang leh diguna pakai...manfaatkan la dalam kita membesar dan mendidik anak2 kita....